A daughter who was betrothed to her husband went far away, and then before she left for her husband's house her mother gave her very, very good advice. The mother didn't cry and did not let the daughter cry. Instead she said, "You must listen to me. This is a very happy day. God has blessed you with a good husband , who doesn't gamble, who doesn't fool around with other women, who doesn't drink, who doesn't cheat; but who's honest, charitable, gentle, moral, virtuous and handsome inside and outside." Inside he was more beautiful than outside. Inside he is white, even though outside he is black.So the daughter was smiling and listening with care, love and attention to the mother.
有一个女儿订婚后，准备要远离家庭到夫家。临走之前，她的母亲给了她非常好的忠告。母亲并没有哭，也不让她的女儿哭，反而说：「你要听我的话，这是一个非常高兴的日子，上帝保佑你，给你一位好的丈夫，不赌博，不和女人乱来，不喝酒、不谎话，而且他是一个诚实、仁爱、优雅，有道德、贞洁又英俊的人。谈到内在和外在，他的内在比外在还要漂亮，里面是白的，虽然外面是黑的，这个女儿微笑且非常爱心、认真地听着她母亲的话。
And the mother said, "Now, you go to your new home. Treat your relatives in-law as your own. Respect your mother and father in-law as you have respected me and your father. Respect your husband as your only God, friend, protector, and the most beloved and respected person on the Earth planet; so that later you'll make a shining example for your children and bring glory, happiness and pride to your new family. You owe that to your husband, to myself and your father and all your sisters and brothers in our family to fulfill this duty. And you owe it to yourself as well as your husband to glorify all of us in this way.
母亲又说：「你去到新家，对待你的夫家亲戚，要像对待自己的亲戚一样；尊敬你的公婆，就像你尊敬我和你父亲一样，尊重你的先生就像他是这个地球上唯一的上帝、朋友和保护者，是你最爱、最尊敬的人。如此就可以为日后你的小孩树立优秀的榜样，为你的家庭带来荣耀、快乐和骄傲。为了你的先生、我和你的父亲及你所有的兄弟姐妹们，你应尽义务去完成这个责任。
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